Some of my
fondest memories of being a teenager centered on trips with my mother to tiny
out-of-the way towns to watch my oldest brother play basketball. He was a “born athlete” and exceptional at
any sport he ever attempted. I can remember one town especially—Westboro,
Wisconsin. It was about 45 miles from my
hometown, and at that time, our own high school had fewer than 200
students. I’m sure that Westboro was
about half that size, but none of that mattered. The competition was still intense. Because there were only three rows of
bleachers and only on one side, we were always in the midst of the action. It’s lucky that cellphones hadn’t appeared yet
because one needed to be aware of the action at all times; a stray ball or player
could easily wind up in your lap.
I remember
the drive home one wintry evening being no less intense. My
mother, who didn’t like to drive, and even less so at night, had her hands
tightly wrapped on the steering wheel as we slowly made our way home through a
blinding snowstorm. As much as she hated
those moments, she would never have missed a game. She grew up with five brothers and she
thrived on competition. So did I, but I
had to be content with following my brother’s exploits and two hours a week of
GAA (Girl’s Athletic Association) activities.
I loved basketball, and it was my only opportunity to play anything
remotely competitive. Now I’m excited
that my granddaughter has countless opportunities to compete in almost any
sport or activity. My mother, at age 87
often said, “Time marches on.” Indeed it
does, and I don’t want to be left behind.
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